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I learned that it is the weak who are cruel, and that gentleness is to be expected only from the strong. ~ Leo Rosten, American author
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Gentleness is sometimes mistakenly interpreted as weakness, as an inability to stand up for self. Gentleness, even under duress, is spiritual self-control, and gives one a better opportunity to respond to a challenging situation with composure and inner strength.
Yes! So true. When someone lashes out in anger . . . it’s often due to low self-esteem and an Ego that wishes to bolster itself at another’s expense.
When we refuse to give Ego “free rein” our responses become strong, composed, gentle, and compassionate.
Very well said, Nancy!
I have been actively contemplating how to incorporate greater “kindness” into my daily life, and I think you’ve given me the key to the way it would be shared–gentleness! I so love the Rosten quote. Thank you, Marie.
I think you are already kind, Debra, but glad this quote inspired you!
Love what you wrote: “gentleness . . .is spiritual self control”. Long ago I raised my son with the knowledge and teachings that gentleness comes from inner strength and courage. Now I am blessed to see that he has grown into a man with the high self esteem to walk in his life as a gentleman – better written as, “gentle man”.
thank you.
julie
Julie, your comments warmed my heart. I agree, what a blessing it is to see a son or daughter walk life in a balanced way because of a mother’s wisdom and teachings. ~Marie
“gentleness” is such a precious quality… especially when there is also quiet strength and steadiness… worthy aspirations to live with those together.
Kahty, A quiet strength and steadiness keeps the mind clear for correct action. I sound like a Zen quote.